So a guy in Spain asks you to buy him a coffee…

I’m really proud of myself right now, though this may sound like a weird thing to be proud of. Women can surely relate to this. I was writing at a coffee shop here in Spain. It’s dead this time of year (no tourists, whoo-hoo!), so I was the only person in the whole cafe. About…

It took two decades of destroying myself to like this body 

(All photos taken in Folegandros, Greece this week) I spent two decades of my life destroying my body cuz I thought I was fat. The really fucked up part is that I was always a tall skinny kid and teenager (and a feminist too!!) and yet for some reason I thought I was a lard…

American men aren’t allowed to be this way and it always makes me sad

​​​ ​ (Video taken today in Greece-this man cleans our hotel).  One of the things I love about Southern Europe (and many countries outside the USA, including south America) is how affectionate they are with each other, especially men with other men and with children. In American this man would not be trusted or even…